《女人最痛》教会我的事

在我假期的最后一个月，我看了这部连续剧。但在这部戏却在我回来读书过后的一星期才播完，所以，我，千辛万苦。。下载PPTV，每天慢慢等它loading，总算看完了这部剧。*泪*

有关这部戏的剧情去我就不在这里赘述了。我要分享的是，我看这部戏所学习到的功课。虽然有人指这部剧是抄袭外国剧《丑女贝蒂》，但我还是不得不说这是非常值得去看的剧集。这部戏找来了老戏骨米雪，张可颐和滕丽名等演员来同台演戏，令这部戏更加有看头。好，废话少说，现在马上进入重点。

1。不要作践自己

中学时期，常因为被人取笑自己长得很丑，时常暗自神伤。当时的我，非常的想不开，三天两头，就因为被人对自己的看法而掉眼泪。我甚至想过去整容。但在剧中滕丽名的一句话令我顿时开窍，感触良多。她说“在我爸妈的眼中，我是最好的 ！” 我不许他们的心意一而再，再而三的被糟蹋！” 对呀！不管别人怎么看我们，在爸妈的眼中，我永远都是最最最完美的！这句话我已经牢牢的记在心里.这句话提醒着我，不要让爸妈的心意被外人糟蹋，也别为了迎合他人而作践自己。

2。努力！努力！再努力！

虽说环境造就一个人，但成功还是得掌握在自己的手中！本剧的其中一位女主角，张可颐所饰演的角色-Jackie出身在一个重男轻女的家庭中。父母亲把所有最好的都给他的大哥。纵然Jackie天资聪颖，学业成绩一流，但她还是没有机会像哥哥般被父母送到国外去读书。但她依然可以凭着自己的努力在事业上越爬越高！虽然她的一些行为令人不敢苟同，但，她的努力使不容被忽视的！

3。凡事留一线，日后好相见。

Jackie在事业上野心勃勃，为达目标，不择手段。她在做每样事，对付别人是都采取赶尽杀绝的态度，就连对待自己的未婚夫也是如此。她这样的做事手法，令她处处树敌。当剧情走到大结局的时候，她虽然达到了目标，但却失去了一班好友以及爱她的男人。

4。斗争的结局，不是一胜一负，而是双方都输！

我们可以在这部连续剧中看见各个角色勾心斗角的场面。Noble和丈夫争孩子的抚养权；Angela，Noble和Jackie在工作上争得你死我活等等。。到最后，我看见的是，看似大家都得到了他们想要的东西（赢），其实，大家都输了！对！大家都各自输了他们最宝贵的东西。Jackie成功夺得了亚太区总裁之位，但却输了友情和爱情。看似威风八面，其实心里的那种空虚有谁知？！Angela为了要得到Senior Brand Manager 之位，不惜勾引上司，最后被Jackie向媒体揭发，身败名裂。最后只得转行卖保险。Bibi,本剧中的丑女，后因整容而变美，成为炙手可热的模特儿，但却因此差点失去了家庭。幸好她既是觉悟，才不至于成为另一个输家！

5。爱你所爱，在适当的时候勇于放手

当属于你的爱情来临时，就敢敢去爱吧！但缘分走到尽头，也要及时放手，这样，我们才能去迎接下一段幸福。

好啦。这就是我所学习到的。愿与知音人共勉之。

上课情景

讲台上，讲师滔滔不绝的授课。

口沫横飞。

讲台下的我们。

一脸茫然。

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"Now I realize,sometimes bad things can turn out good." --Lionel Messi

再别康桥

再别康桥

作者: 徐志摩

轻轻的我走了，

正如我轻轻的来；

我轻轻的招手，

作别西天的云彩。

　

那河畔的金柳，

是夕阳中的新娘；

波光里的艳影，

在我的心头荡漾。

　

软泥上的青荇，

油油的在水底招摇；

在康河的柔波里，

我甘心做一条水草！

　

那榆荫下的一潭，

不是清泉，

是天上虹；

揉碎在浮藻间，

沉淀着彩虹似的梦。

　

寻梦？撑一支长篙，

向青草更青处漫溯；

满载一船星辉，

在星辉斑斓里放歌。

　

但我不能放歌，

悄悄是别离的笙箫；

夏虫也为我沉默，

沉默是今晚的康桥！

　

悄悄的我走了，

正如我悄悄的来；

我挥一挥衣袖，

不带走一片云彩。

我一直都很喜欢这一首由徐志摩所写的诗。我其实很早就接触了这首诗。但真正让我对这首诗印象深刻的，还是中四那年的那一堂名句精华课。

老师为了要让我们了解这首诗的意境，特地找了影片来放给我们看。我才知道，原来“康桥”在英国，也就是我们所熟知的“剑桥”。在这之前我一直以为康桥是中国的某个桥~ *汗* “再别康桥”是作者去了英国剑桥大学后，在回中国的路上所写的诗，借此表达他对离开剑桥大学的不舍。他很希望能够在回剑桥去看看，但很遗憾的是，他回到了中国不久后，就在一场坠机意外中遇难了。他再也没有机会回去看看他挚爱的康桥。

诗中的桥，指的是是剑桥大学里那闻名于世的数学桥。数学桥"厉害"的地方是，它是完全不用一根钉子，而是应用数学的原理建成的。不过现存的数学桥已经不是最初的那一座了，因为它曾经被学生拆了然后尝试重组。重组不遂，就只好用钉子钉过一座一模一样的桥了。至于长篙，则是用来撑小船的工具。在剑桥，这是常见的景象。

很喜欢作者这带着淡淡离愁的诗。面对离别，作者的态度，有的只是潇洒。也许他在压抑自己即将离开的惆怅？我们不得而知。人总有悲欢离合，离，是不能避免的一个人生历程。在离开时，我们只好轻轻的挥一挥衣袖，不带走一片云彩。就让那份牵挂场在心灵深处的某个角落吧。

悄悄是别离的笙箫，沉默是今晚的康桥。

So close,yet so far

This photo was taken during my flight from Miri to KL.

I was lucky enough to catch this scene,which the aircraft is very near to the cloud.

The cloud is just in front to me,it`s too near to me to touch.

But we were separated by the "window" of the aircraft.

That why I named this photo as "So close,yet so far." Just like...

看似近在眼前，其实遥不可及。

Terminal Tiga

I could still remember that when I was in Form 4 I studied a Malay novel called "Terminal Tiga" .The novel which was written by Othman Puteh was a compulsory reading material for our Malay Literature studies.I didn`t read the whole novel but only study about the plot,the synopsis,characters and other literature components so I knew the story line.

Terminal Tiga means "The Third Terminal".The main character was from the inland of Sabah.He left his hometown in order to further his studies in Kuala Lumpur.The Terminal Tiga refers to Kuala Lumpur Airport and also Kuala Lumpur where worked very hard in order to make his life better.

It left two days for me to go back to Kedah to continue my studies.Since there is no direct flight from Miri to Penang I have to stop at Kuala Lumpur and transit to Penang.I feel like my experience is more or less similar to the main character in Terminal Tiga.Both of us lest our hometown to further our studies but I`m more lucky because I`m from a good family.Unlike the main character whose father was run away when he was very young.

If I say Miri is the first "terminal" in my life and KL is my second terminal,then Penang and Kedah would be my third teminal.Penang International Airport is the place where I start my journey either back to my hometown or the starting point of my journey back to my university.This is the place where I have lots of feeling and I would definitely think a lot when I was in the airport,thinking about everything in uni,thinking about my parents and grandparents in my hometown...

So the 3months holidays have to mark a full stop here.I`m leaving very soon and probably will only come back next year,during the Chinese New Year.Though this is a non-productive holidays for me but I did learn and experience new things.I realized how important am I to my parents and my family.This is something that I never expect to see during this holidays.

Penang Intenational Airport.Taken during last January.

Sarawak Special - Diang Biang Hu

Diang Biang Hu (鼎边糊) is one of the Sarawakian`s favourite food.People normally take this as their breakfast."Diang Biang Hu" is actually a type of the Foo Chow people food which was brought by our ancestors from China to Sarawak .

A bowl of Diang Biang Hu consists of fish balls,minced pork,fried onion,black fungus and the "hu" which taste like "cai kueh"(a type of kueh).And all these are mixed in concentrated soup base.It is best served when still hot.It tastes a little bit salty due to the ingredients used.For me I would add some pepper to enhance the taste.

Diang Biang Hu

Since it is Sarawak food it is very easy to find a kopi tiam which sell Diang Biang Hu. But I would recommend the one that sold at Hung Yun Cafe and Public which are located at Mosjaya Miri. The soup is just nice,not too "diluted".

If you have a chance to visit Sarawak do not miss this delicious food!

This is OMG OMG!!!

For those who read my previous post you will know that my favourite national football team is SPAIN and my favourite player is FERNANDO TORRES!!!My biggest dream is to own a Spain jersey but I can not afford to have one because I`m a student.

They jersey is produced by Adidas which cost approximately RM125.As I`m not working this is a very big amount of money.Besides I will feel guilty if I buy it.

So now there`s a GREAT news to me!My friend showed me a website selling Spain National Football Team jersey by Adidas at only RM45.90,without printing the players` name at the back.

Look down...

Tadaaa!!!This is the one!Look like the genuine one.

And this is the one with my TORRES`s name.But it is more expensive.RM55.

Yay I`m now so so so so happy!!On cloud nine!

No doubt I will definitely get the jersey !!

Spacial thanks to Ling Ker Sing for telling me about this.Muchas Gracias!

What is Biotech?

These are the questions that the elderly always ask me during the holidays.

"Girl,you a university student right?How great are you!Which year are you in?"

"Erm..Yes.Thanks.I just finished my first year?"

"Where are you studying?"

and my mom or my grandmother will reply "KL"

*HELLO!KL and Kedah are two different places!And FYI I spent more than 1year to correct them but I failed to correct my grandmother.*

so I will correct the information.

"No,not KL!I`m actually studying in Kedah."

"Which Uni?UUM?"

"I`m studying in a private university.It`s very new,called AIMST."

"Oh.Then what course are you studying?"

"Biotech." *proudly*

"Oh Biotech.But..what is actually Biotech?What is Biotech study about?How to say Biotech in Mandarin?"

I HATE this question most.So I will give the answer depends on my mood.

If my mood was good I would say,"Biotech in Mandarin is 生物科技,is the combination of Biology and technology.We study about Gene,Microorganisms and many more!"

If my mood was not that good or I was lazy to say much I would say "Erm,sorry I don`t know how to say in Mandarin."

After that my grandmother will say Biotech is 农业科技(Agriculture)，化学(Chemistry)...bla bla..

Ish.Biotech is a too new thing to them.Even I tell then Biotech in Mandarin is 生物科技 they also won`t understand what is that.That why I`m sick of answering them this sort of question.

Oh I forgot.Sometimes some of the relatives will ask "Do you have a boyfriend?" and this would be the most annoying one.

听雨

“少年听雨歌楼上，红烛昏罗帐。壮年听雨客舟中，江阔云低，断雁叫西风。
而今听雨僧庐下，鬓已星星也。悲欢离合总无情，一任阶前，点滴到天明。”

--蒋捷《虞美人•听雨》

昨夜下了场大雨。我躺在床上，翻来覆去无法入睡。听着雨点打在屋顶上的声音，我想起我刚上中学的某个雨夜，那雨声也是这样的。转眼七年就这么过去了。雨声依旧，但听起来的感觉却非常的不一样。当年在憧憬未来的那个小女生，如今已经是个大学生。我非常的幸运，因为在完成中学教育后，我就一直在朝着自己选择的道路上走着。

雨声令我想起了这首词。虽然我现在的年纪还没像作者那般已经到了“鬓已星星也”的年纪，但我也可感受到作者听雨的时候那百般滋味在心头的感觉。七年，在漫漫人生中可能只占了非常短的时间，但我可以说这几年是我成长最多的时期，无论是思想上还是行为上甚至是外表上。

二十岁的我，不敢说自己羽翼已丰，但我正努力的做好今天的自己以准备迎向下一个而立之年。

十年后的我，听到如此雨声，又会有另一番滋味在心头。